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Posted by Sreejan on April 3, 2007

I would accept the fact. I am cheap. I somehow am not able to reconcile with the fact that I need to spend 25 USD (1100 INR) to travel 8 miles on a taxi or 50 USD for a t-shirt or 40 USD for a dinner, where I end up not eating most of the stuff. The cheapest t-shirt (the one I would want to wear) costs 1500 INR, even though I compromise on design, colour, and even fabric. GAP displays a shirt for 98 USD (4400 INR). It has a “Made in India” label on it. A friend who accompanies me buys a 650 USD watch for his fiancee. Back home things are cheap. In 1500 INR I could possibly get the best available t-shirt. Here the same priced t-shirt gets a Hmmmmmmm! and a Not bad! comment.

So what, if we do not have brands like FCUK or ARMANI? I am happy with the brands we have. Or the no brands at Fashion Street (Mumbai), Sarojini Nagar (Delhi). They are worth for what they cost. At times even more. Once I bought a Timberland shirt for mere 100 INR from a street vendor. Probably the shirt had some manufacturing defect, which was not discernible to a common human eye.

I had heard US is cheap. But I find it otherwise here. Last night I pampered myself and had a dinner which cost me 40 USD, excluding the tip. A dinner for one. It was at one of the 5-star restaurants, and as I said, I ended up not eating most of the stuff. So what’s the big deal? I would probably pay the same amount in an Indian 5-star restaurant. But there I could take a 5-minute walk and find a much cheaper restaurant, where I would pay 10 times less for a sumptuous meal. Even if I would have to take a taxi/auto/local train to find a cheap restaurant, it would be worth it. I would end up spending less anyways. Here, we do have cheap restaurants or joints. But I would need to spend 10USD or probably even more to reach the place. And another 10 USD to come back to my hotel. My hotel is located in one of the suave places of US. For me there is no difference.

But I still do it. And I still am here. Doing things I am cribbing about. Hypocrisy! eh?

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Yemen Diary- Part 3…Little India

Posted by Sreejan on January 29, 2007

What can you expect from an Indian who is living abroad? Reminiscing about days spent in India, about friends back home, about little joys with the loved ones, and looking out for Little Indias all over the foreign land. 

I visited Old Sanaa today and found one of the Little Indias I was looking for. A loudspeaker atop a shop was blaring out a Hindi song.   

“Dus bahane karke le gayi dil…..” 

I couldn’t resist the temptation of talking to the shopkeeper. Hindi songs are very popular here, especially in old Sanaa, he said. Do you understand any of it? Not much, but the music is lovely. I ended up buying a couple of cassettes from him, and gifted it to one of our drivers, who makes it a point to play Hindi songs, when ever he drives me. In return I got a big smile accompanied with a shy hug.  

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Yemen Diary – Part 2

Posted by Sreejan on January 26, 2007

While having lunch at a Lebanese restaurant in Sanaa, I got involved in an interesting discussion with a colleague. It happened so that it was prayer time for the Muslims, and my friend never missing a single prayer, religiously turned toward the direction of
Mecca and prayed.

Didn’t I pray, he asked. I do at times, but not regularly. He probably hadn’t realized till that moment that I wasn’t a Muslim like him. So are you a Christian? No, I am a Hindu. So what is the soul of your religion? And it had me dumbfounded. I pondered on it for a while and came up with a couple of explanations.

Hinduism is not a religion, it’s a philosophy, I said. As Hindus we need not adhere to certain rules, rituals, or regulations. In fact it’s not even Hinduism. The actual religion is “Sanatana Dharma.”  We are independent to do whatever we want to do. We can live our lives the way we would like to, keeping in mind what is right and what is wrong. It’s more of a conscience thing. If your conscience allows you to do certain thing you very well can, unless it causes harm to others.

Religion brings peace to your soul, he said. And I could not disagree with him. He is a Muslim and Islam is his guide. He is a rational man, and a thinking man. But when it comes to religion, it’s slightly different. He rises above his intellectually arguing self (the “aham” in Sanskrit). He doesn’t want to dispute the holy book, though he agrees that there are a few aspects he doesn’t understand. But he believes that he won’t commit any wrong, if he does follow it. And that brings peace to him.

He is aware of what he is doing in his life. He follows a certain channel, the channel provided by god, and rediscovered by the Prophet, as they say.

As for me, I still am in search of alternative channels. The ones which are difficult to discover, as I think, I believe. The ones which probably the Supreme Being doesn’t want us to discover. Or is it so? I wonder…

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Yemen Diary – Part 1

Posted by Sreejan on January 24, 2007

I started at 5 AM today to catch a 10:45 AM flight from Riyan to Sanaa. One needs to pass through three security check posts before one can reach the airport. At every check post I carried my heavy bags through a panel of x-ray machines, which apparently had a malfunctioning. At least I thought so. Because the security guards seemed not to take any notice of them, as they opened my bags and went through all the contents one by one.

“Hindi?” “Aiwa!”

“Muslim?” ” Laa, maafi!”

They let me pass with a cynical smile.

I reached airport at 9:30 AM after collecting my tickets midway. And now I am here waiting all alone. The security guard at the airport entrance doesn’t let me in. The flight is at 3:30 PM and I am early he says. I curse my travel agent. I call him and my manager one after another. They apologize and say that they’ll do something about it. But I know it’s over. I would have to stay here at the Mukalla International Airport, one of the four (or is it five?) airports of Yemen, stranded, all alone, for almost 6 hours.

It’s the first hour and I have another five hours to kill. I can’t even get into the airport, because unlike other airports, I am not allowed inside until two hours before the flight time. But the airport has its advantages. I do not need to get my bags screened some times. I wonder why? With three check posts along the road, where they literally make you feel ashamed by taking out everything you own, they probably do not need another one at the airport.

My driver has left. So going to some place is ruled out. I look for a coffee shop around. I try and ask the guards with the little Arabic I have learnt. But, nothing! It’s a vain attempt. I put my bags along the wall and sit on one of them. I keep the other two bags close to me, touching me, reassuring me that they are here with me.

A local comes strolling towards me. He knows I am Hindi (Indian). He surprises me by speaking Hindi. He had been to Hyderabad to learn English, he says. He ended up learning English as well as Hindi. Good for me I think. He wants to know how is India, since he left. And he talks about Hyderabadi Biryani. I offer him a Davidoff, which he declines. We sit and chat for a while. I like his enthusiasm about India and her people. He wonders how I ended up here at the Mukalla airport. I too wonder. I want him to stay another couple of hours, but he has to leave. We part ways, with a promise that I’ll call him if and when I am back. He’ll take me to his home then.

I am alone once again. People around me, wondering what am I doing? You don’t find many passengers sitting outside this airport, unlike the Indian ones, where you have hoards of people outside the airport, anytime of the day. It’s more of a why rather than a what on their faces. And I too wonder again.

A security guard approaches me with hesitant steps. I try to give him a welcoming smile. He thinks I am from Pakistan. I correct him. He seems to know a lot about India, her cities, Bombay, Calcutta, Madras….With my Berlitz Arabic Phrase dictionary in my hand, I somehow manage to communicate with him. He speaks English, better than most of his country men. India is big and beautiful he says. I feel the need to reciprocate. I praise Yemen and her people. He is happy. He has heard that women pay money during marriage in India. Is it true? It’s an illegal practice I say. But he wishes to go to India to marry four women. He would not have to pay them, and might even end up earning some. He can marry four women according to Islamic laws, but with his meager pay of 100 USD per month he could barely get married once. He had to pay 1000USD for his marriage.

Am I a Muslim he asks? I say god made everyone a Muslim and in that sense probably yes I am one. There are two kinds of Muslims I say, good Muslims and not so good Muslims. I fall in the second category. I am sure he doesn’t understand me. But somehow it makes him happy. I offer him a cigarette. He refuses. And then reluctantly takes one. He doesn’t smoke that often, not the usual ones. He likes hashish and offers me some. I overcome my desire of trying some and refuse.

Another guy joins him and then a couple of more. They are amused with my Berlitz dictionary and some of them help me pronounce some of the Arabic phrases. They like when I make an effort to speak in Arabic. They laugh occasionally. I keep up a smile on my face continuously.

A guy asks me about cinema and homosexuality. I do not know the relationship though. It makes me laugh. I ask them about Amitabh Bachchan and most of them know him. They love his movies, but they seldom get a chance to watch him on screen. What about Indian women? What about them, I ask. Why are they so pretty on screen but not so pretty otherwise? I try and tell them about reel and real life but again I fall short of right words.

All of them, but one, have gone. Their amusement, in talking to me, subsiding after a while.

I ask the guy who still sticks with me about coffee shop. No coffee shop he says. But there is a restaurant nearby. I can get tea there. I invite him for a cup of tea. He declines. He doesn’t have money. I would treat him but he doesn’t agree. He is willing to accompany me to the restaurant though. 

We have tea at the restaurant. I managed to convince him that he should have tea with me, for my sake. He tells me about a beach nearby. He can take me there. But I am reluctant. After tea I ask him to order lunch for both of us. He orders tuna and some bread. Another of his friend joins us for lunch. Total cost: 450 YER, which is around 3 USD. At the airport! It’s cheap! He offers me to take me to his home, which I again refuse. He has to go as his family is waiting for him. He would leave for Sanaa in a couple of days time to resume his duty as a constable. I give him my number. Call me when you are in Sanaa. He thanks me for lunch, and I am embarrassed.

He has left, Mohammed. I sit and revise all the Arabic phrases I used during our almost one way conversation. 

I still wait…  

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